everything that happens in this world,
there is no absolute good or bad.
sometymes good things turned out to be bad things eventually,
while bad things became a gain.
whatever good things that happen to you,
but dun have to hold too tight to it,
treat it as a surprise in your life.
whatever bad things that happen to you,
dun have to feel too sad or despair.
in the end, it might not be a total bad thing after all.
if one understand this, he or she will find life much easier